Showing posts with label care package. Show all posts
Showing posts with label care package. Show all posts

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Care Package and Roadblocks

This is what we sent to Jadyn 2 weeks ago.


It's candy, cookies, a letter to her caregivers--whomever they may be--and a small baby photo album with 5 pictures.

I have heard good things about where she is living, that the nannies do prepare the children well.  How well can you prepare a toddler for her whole world to turn upside down.  Imagine your child's feelings if they were taken away from you at 18 months.  Now, it's not exactly the same, because your child is in a wonderful nurturing environment, however, Jadyn's world is all she knows.  I am trying to prepare myself for a traumatized baby, I know she will be, to at lease some extent.  Words of wisdom:   prepare for the worst, hope for the best.......trusting in God.

The ROADBLOCK we have come up against is related to our I800 application and unreadable copies.  The Chinese documents we (and our agency) received were scanned copies put into a zip file.  They are fuzzy and hard to read--although disagreeing with our US Immigration Entity, they are FINE.  They are like many others who have received approvals with the same type/quality of documents.  This could be fixed in a day, week, or month.  Like it or not, this process has to be completed before we can be invited to travel.  The kicker is that we submitted a sworn statement that these documents were issued from Chinese government and were translated accordingly, apparently in the US that is no longer good enough.  Forgive my cynical attitude, it's only a few weeks so far, but that could lead to a few weeks of me not holding my daughter.  Thanks for letting me vent.

Tuesday, June 22, 2010

We received an update on Jadyn

We did not get a new picture, this one is from our original information, but we were able to submit some questions.  We got them answered!!
Can we please have current measurements?
height:76CM,weight:12KG,head circumference: 49CM,chest circumference:50CM,feet:10CM

Is she still on formula, from a regular bottle or a cup?
 formula

Does she have any medical or special needs, aside from her original information?
No.

Is she on any medications? If so, what are they?
No.

Has she had any illnesses?
No.

Is she able to walk?
Walking by holding one hand.

What words can she say?
Nainai (grandma), Gege (big brother), mama.

What makes her angry or upset?
Things that she does not like.

What do you do that soothes her or calms her down?
Hold her and distract her.

What is her favorite toy?
Music toys.

They will provide new development report in a few weeks.

We are currently waiting on our I800 application to be approved.  When we receive that, and then another notice from another USCIS entity, we can submit another bundle of red tape to get this process moving along.  Thankfully, this part is all pretty predictable, and unless OUR government agencies start to process these papers faster, it will take about 30 days until we wait on the next step.

We have ordered a care package for Jadyn through http://www.redthreadchina.com/.  It includes a photo album of our lovely faces, so she will at least have some exposure (ha, pun intended) to us before we meet her, and some cookies and candy for the kids and staff where she lives.  We are hoping that we will be able to get some updated photos of her through this service.

This is all becoming so real.  It's sinking in now.